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Lose Weight Successfully by Making it Pleasurable

If weight loss is your goal, what are you prepared to do to make that happen?  Arbitrary thoughts of wanting to lose X number of pounds or be certain clothing size, isn’t going to cut it.

Have you ever wondered why, this seemingly simple task of making better food choices, becomes a mammoth challenge?

People either waste money on:
•    Weight loss supplements – fat burners etc
•    Weight loss, bars and shakes which are often full of strange chemicals
•    Faddy diets – such as; cabbage soup and counting calories, colours, points etc
•    Gym memberships and either not going, or not regularly enough, or only give a half arsed effort there.

Don’t get me wrong all those things could work, but 99% of the time they probably won’t; why?

Do you prefer having pleasure or pain?

You may think what a dumb question. Who in their right mind would want pain? Exactly my point, well, unless you have some kind of quirky fetish that is.

As a human being you are hard-wired to avoid pain (makes sense, you wouldn’t want to keep burning your hand by touching something hot). You are also wired to seek pleasure and conserve energy.

Now you can understand why many diets are so problematic. If you want to lose weight, but think about all the foods you won’t be able to eat about, or having to avoid certain restaurants, turning down chocolates at work, having to prepare food in advance, battling with your cravings etc then all that does is equate to massive PAIN!

Not exactly appealing or motivating…no wonder it doesn’t work! Your brain is wired to avoid pain.

It’s the lure of having pleasure now that destroys weight loss attempts. How many times have you been on ‘a diet’ or ‘being good’ when something has happened at work, or you are stuck in Starbucks confronted with the cake counter, when that tempting thought drops into your mind?

The OMG, that looks so good, the saliva starts to build in your mouth as you eyeball the cake/biscuit/muffin/pizza/chocolate, the feeling of pleasure builds up and the annoyance of having to restrict leads to a “just one last blow out, then I’ll be ready to stick to the diet” or “sod it, I’m miserable dieting”.

Before you know it, you are sitting down with a tempting slice of whatever you choose that’s ‘off diet’ in front of you, at this point you’ve gone too far to turn back,  moneys been spent and you have justified all the reasons why you’re ‘allowed’ to have this treat now.

The instant enjoyment of that ‘treat’  in reality only lasts a few seconds or minutes before the reward quickly gets turned into self loathing and  shame; fuelling the belief that ‘I’m not strong enough, or motivated enough, or there’s something wrong with me’.

None of that is true!

We all crave pleasure, which is why if weight loss is your goal, it has to become pleasurable, right now!

When people talk about their weight loss goals, I hear a lot of, when I get to X pounds then I’ll be happy. Let’s just look at that.  If, for example you have two stone to lose, that could take 14 weeks or so. Which, is not a long time in reality, it only seems a long time if you see pain for 14 weeks. To stick at that would be near on impossible! 14 Weeks of pain, not very compelling is it?

What is the answer?

Feel good right now about losing weight, seems obvious, but you may wonder ‘how am I going to do that?’ especially when diets, restriction, etc equals pain.

This is my take on it, step by step.

1.    Write down your goal. Your goal needs to be pleasurable, such as; having more energy, a toned slim physique, buying cool clothes, feeling more confident, achieving want you want in your life etc. Know why you want this for yourself, get it down in writing and find pictures to illustrate your words. Carry your goal around.  Everyday imagine yourself as your new physique and feel great about it. The more excited you can be about this and imagine it in your mind, the more your unconscious mind will connect to what you want and help you to achieve it.
2.    Work out your strategy:  how much exercise are you going to do – what will you do to make that more pleasurable? For example, I love listening to podcasts when I walk. Not only am I exercising but also getting an additional education at the same time.
3.    What is you nutritional strategy going to be? You can still lose weight and eat amazing foods! If you don’t know how, get in contact.
4.    Have an affirmation that you constantly repeat to yourself, such as every day I am getting healthier and healthier, or slimmer and slimmer.  When you say this to yourself, picture yourself in your mind at your goal weight and feel how that will be, how confident, positive etc. This way you are bringing pleasure into the moment and feeling good right now!
5.    Google some recipe ideas, there are tons out there. Find things you would enjoy making, have fun being a culinary whizz. Doesn’t matter if you currently  are a can’t be bothered to cook type, anyone can learn to make simple food!
6.    Change what you think about yourself, for example if you think of yourself as being fat, then you’ll stay stuck. Remember the Nike advert, with the words “I am an athlete” next to ordinary looking people. Whatever we call ourselves we become, so give yourself a fun title.

Every time you turn away a chocolate bar, or stick to your plan etc, pump yourself up, feel good, because the more pleasure you can feel now the more you will be compelled to lose weight and stick to your goal.

If you feel good every minute, hour, day that goes by that you stay strong that is more empowering, more thrilling, reshapes the way your mind works, changes your life and every single future goal you do…. That’s how to get pleasure losing weight now, even though it may take some time for your body to look physically how you want. And that bit is just the icing on the cake that will come when you’re consistent with seeking pleasure by choosing to be healthy instead taking the quick fix that only brings long-term pain.

If you want a fun way to get fit, join me for some weekly classes going to start on Tuesday and Thursday mornings, email me to find out more.

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If You Don’t Do This, Exercise Alone Won’t Help

This is something I’ve heard all too often over the years…It’s ok if I eat ‘XYZ Rubbish Food’ I’ll burn it off at the gym.  That approach simply doesn’t work. In fact you will be forever chasing your tail with that approach.  Which is why you see so many people at the gym, pounding away doing the same ole cardio week in, week out. Yet, never getting to that body shape they are so desperately trying to achieve.

Aerobics to lose weight….think again

Think about it, if it takes roughly an hour to burn 493 calories in a high impact aerobics class for a 157 pound person (11.07 stone) then that’s a lot of sweat and effort to burn up last night’s dessert. To keep eating the same foods, and then exercising like crazy  to hope to keep off the extra calories, is not an effective strategy, not only is it demoralizing but why go through all that stress?

Eat right and lift weights

Eating the diet we were designed to eat will keep you from feeling hungry, give you more energy and allow you to strip off the fat. We were designed to eat food which can be pulled from the ground, plucked from a tree and also hunted. We were not designed to be eating processed, Frankenstein foods.

Lifting progressively heavier weights will give you an athletic looking physique, when you get your body fat low enough to see the muscle under the fat.

So ladies do not be put off by lifting weights, you won’t suddenly end up with bulging muscles and a square jaw…unless you start taking steroids that is.  Which is how women end up looking like  guys. We produce little testosterone and don’t pack on muscle that way. Training 2-3 hours of weights a week will simply not turn you into a muscle Mary.

Muscle does burn slightly more calories at rest than fat alone.  This is one reason why shifting that fat to muscle balance works in our favour.

Major fat burner

Use interval  training with your weight lifting. It can boost your metabolism for as long as 48 hours after your workout, as opposed to aerobic training which returns to normal almost immediately. If you want to get a taste of what this is, join me for one of my mini classes. Email me for more details

Strength training  places extra demands on your body which is necessary  to develop a toned physique. When you strength train it causes microscopic tears in the muscle, don’t worry that’s what we are trying to achieve! In the recovery time it repairs and builds new stronger muscle, strengthens tendons, ligaments and muscle tissue.  Weight bearing exercise also increases bone density which starts to gradually get lesser as we get older, and for women especially after the menopause, so it is one of our defences against osteoporosis.

The bottom line is to get the right nutrition in place otherwise you may never reap the rewards of your hard work. Train hard, lift weights, get the heart rate up and enjoy the challenge, not only will your body become stronger but your mind will too.


Making Yourself More Resilence to Life

Resilience: to be able to recover quickly from set backs

(Definition from the Encarta Dictionary)

Many of us are lacking in our abilities to spring back from our day-today lives. An indication this is happening if you find yourself experiencing any of the below:
•    Overeating
•    Feeling run-down
•    Getting every bug going
•    Having to haul yourself around
•    Everything feeling like an effort
•    Weight gain
•    Fatigue
•    Fed-Up
•    No desire to exercise

There are many reasons why your resilience may be under powered such as; an underlying infection, past or current medications, unhealthy food choices, negative lifestyle habits, lack of sleep, sub-optimal thyroid function, stress (real or imagined) and poor gut health.
I know only too well how it feels to be burnt out, fatigued and unhappy with my weight gain. I also know that life doesn’t have to be that way. Sure we will all have times when our workload stacks up and life seems to get in the way of taking any time for ourselves. It is in these times though that having robustness is crucial to prevent overeating and continual tiredness to set in.

We all have the chance to make a stand for our happiness and take charge of our health. Sometimes illness makes this difficult or even impossible to regain full health. The point however, is – to be at the best level you can be for your circumstances. If you are still breathing and not yet fully engaged in enhancing your health there is hope for you to make some improvements.

Once you develop greater resilience by enhancing your exercise routine and optimising your nutrition you will find you can live your life with more ease, happiness and fun.

Weight loss will become easier as you are not fighting hormones driving you to overeat. You will find a greater bonding with yourself, as you are taking care of what really matters in life which is you!

If you have resilience you will weather life’s knocks and bounce back. You will be more able to take on projects/ workload and have better relationships with others.

 “Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” Jim Rohn


Welcome To Kali Health Blogs

Hi there, I just wanted to welcome you to my blogs. The blogs will be on anything health related, some articles more complex than others. If there is anything you are interested in specifically, please let me know.  I’ll consider researching the subject if it’s of public interest.

I want to just say this now, science changes and new research comes out every day. All of us in the field of nutrition and fitness/strength training have a tough job disseminating the information available at the time of our writings. I will endeavour to be as accurate as I can and as more data is available I will update my work accordingly.

If you spot a problem please let me know so that I can look into it and correct it if need be. Not the little grammar mistakes though, which may be many (sorry about that) but anything technical or related to the subject matter.

kh-sigMany thanks and I hope you enjoy reading!